Life Spins Differentlly

Once in a life time, we will find ourselves thrown at many intersections, looking at different directions and go on adventure in search of meaning, we will stand at the crossroad wondering why life is often associated with destiny when it is nothing but a series of events that took place because well, life is just like that, a series of events.

And once in a life time, we believe that somewhere along our journey, we will find someone who can complete the cycle of our existence, we will share plans for the future, dreams that might not come true and hopes that sometime appear vague. We become extremely comfortable and when life turns upside down, we know we can make it through the day because we find strength in knowing there’s someone we can always run to. We will see a beaming sunlight beyond the watery grey sky and we will feel the soft breezy air under the harshest heat of the summer sun. We will open our hearts to experience love and happiness because we believe pain is part of being human.

But as we all know, life never spins that way, sometimes it revolves in a completely bizarre pattern that leaves us no choice but to move on. Eventually, the watery grey sky becomes a pouring rain, the soft breezy air becomes an icy storm and the once-in-a-lifetime-belief of stumbling on someone we thought could complete the missing dot of our existence becomes, well, just a funny thought.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. You cannot change a man’s character and it is a disaster trying to change one. Allow your intuition to work and listen into it. Don’t ignore the voices of your instinct, remember, a woman’s instinct is always right. Stop trying to change yourself for something that's not meant to be. Never live your life for a man who doesn’t care.  If you feel like he doesn’t want you then probably he is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better" You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. If you continue hoping for something that could never be given, you will just reap a hell of heartache, and there is nothing cute about heartaches.