Once in a life time, we will find ourselves thrown at many
intersections, looking at different directions and go on adventure in search of
meaning, we will stand at the crossroad wondering why life is often associated
with destiny when it is nothing but a series of events that took place because
well, life is just like that, a series of events.
And once in a life time, we believe that somewhere along our
journey, we will find someone who can complete the cycle of our existence, we
will share plans for the future, dreams that might not come true and hopes that
sometime appear vague. We become extremely comfortable and when life turns
upside down, we know we can make it through the day because we find strength in
knowing there’s someone we can always run to. We will see a beaming sunlight
beyond the watery grey sky and we will feel the soft breezy air under the
harshest heat of the summer sun. We will open our hearts to experience love and
happiness because we believe pain is part of being human.
But as we all know, life never spins that way, sometimes it revolves
in a completely bizarre pattern that leaves us no choice but to move on.
Eventually, the watery grey sky becomes a pouring rain, the soft breezy air
becomes an icy storm and the once-in-a-lifetime-belief of stumbling on someone
we thought could complete the missing dot of our existence becomes, well, just
a funny thought.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him
stay. Stop
making excuses for a man and his behavior. You cannot change a man’s character
and it is a disaster trying to change one. Allow your intuition to work and listen
into it. Don’t ignore the voices of your instinct, remember, a woman’s instinct
is always right. Stop trying to change
yourself for something that's not meant to be. Never live your life for a man who doesn’t care. If you feel like
he doesn’t want you then probably he is. Don't
stay because you think "it will get better" You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better. If you continue hoping for
something that could never be given, you will just reap a hell of heartache,
and there is nothing cute about heartaches.
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